Highlight Reel - First Smiles

You think that little crooked grin on your newborn's face is a loving smile. Turns out she's just flatulent. Those chubby cheeks squish involuntarily as the cheeks down below do the same. Oh well. Maybe the next smile will be real.

And then she hits the 8 week mark. On a particularly good day, she looks into your face and smiles. This time, it's not followed by a grumbling from below. Can it be? The first real smile from your newborn? Whether it is or not, you choose to err on the side of  super-happiness and believe that it is. You're now on the lookout for other examples to bolster your theory.

The following week, it's a sure thing. As you hold your little chubby bunny close and cozy, your husband comes up to wrap his arms around the two of you. While you both look into this tiny face that's a little of him and a little of you, her eyes light up and she gives you an unmistakeable sunny smile. Both sides of the mouth are engaged, and her whole face gets in on the action - that's how you know it's real. That's how you know it's love.

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