Happy 4th Birthday to my little Panda


You were premature by 5 weeks and 1 day.
You run on your own time.

You were breech after being head down for weeks.
You change as the mood strikes you.

You kicked off the blankets whenever you were out of the incubator.
You run hot, just like your mama, and you already wanted to be like Queen Elsa.

You didn't cry through all the heel pricks and IV lines.
You are brave and so very strong.

You stayed in NICU to learn how to eat, and after 10 days finally got the NG tube removed.
You are a perfectionist. With a big appetite.

You didn't walk till well past a year old.
You are perhaps a little bit stubborn. Also like your mama.

You were early to speak and asked a ton of questions.
You have a brilliant, inquisitive mind.

You love pink, sparkles, rainbows, and music. Also Batgirl.
You are your own person.

You were uncertain about having a brother, but are doting, loving and gentle with him.
You are a wonderful big sister.

You came out that May 27th, and you were so loved.
You are here with us forever, and you are so loved. 

Happiest of birthdays to my little Panda. You challenge me daily and love me deeply, and I am forever grateful that you made me a mama.

XoXo

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